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Kyle: "Last night was super ragey. Jamie fumbles around looking confused. Jamie: "Wait, did we have sex? You don't remember? Ryan and Jordyn stumble to the bed making out and taking each others' clothes off.

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I suddenly sobered up in the middle of my crazed, drunken state, sort of like how I used to sober up in high school the moment I saw the blinking lights of a cop car. I've done them all, and alcohol is the one that scares me the most. Hollywood movies had made me think that two people screaming at each other while knocking back drinks meant passion. But it's so much more beautiful, even with the fear.

It was more like an alarm warning me, If you don't run now, you're going to stay in this place forever with this person. If your partner is showing s of incapacitationSTOP.

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Incapacitation is a state beyond drunkenness or intoxication. Exploiting a person's impairment from the use of alcohol or other drugs is not okay under any circumstances. Quinn reciprocates. Jordyn: "I'm going to take that as a yes.

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And, like I said, I've tried them all. Some people wake up with a sore head and cotton mouth. Agreeing to have sex can only happen when it is free from undue influence and pressure.

Drugs always turn on you, and don't think for one second that alcohol isn't a drug. And even though we were in love for almost two years, we eventually had to cut ties.

Therefore, it is imperative to be able to determine the difference between incapacitation and intoxication. Suddenly, Saturday nights were defined by crop tops, velvet choker necklaces and reckless house parties where we destroyed perfectly manicured McMansions. For instance, the first real grown-up relationship I had with a woman — the kind where I fell hard, spilled all the secrets, and dropped all the guards — was in my very early 20s.

If you are not totally sure they want to have sex, don't have sex.

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Our lips locked. Again, if you are initiating sexual activity with someone who has been consuming alcohol or other drugs, you are responsible for ensuring there is clear and unambiguous consent at all times. When my ex and I were drinking, we didn't live in reality. But those were isolated little incidents.

It's okay to have sex when drinking or using other drugs, but all of the rules of consent still apply and this adds an additional level of trust and responsibility. In fact, the fear is beautiful.

I never realized how much drinking affected my relationships, until now

It wasn't until I stepped away from the party scene for a bit, stayed single for a few years and dared to look at my life through a filterless lens that I realized how much wild, out-of-control drinking had affected me. Let's just call it a night.

Except these blinking lights were scarier than any cop car. Cam: "Just let me know if you want to slow things down.

I want to do things with my life. Quinn: "Tonight was a lot of fun and I'm kinda drunk They all did, because it always started and ended with tequila. Communication about sex and relationships when people are kaking AND know each other well can be difficult and awkward for some people. The fear is beautiful. But then again, it makes sense: How can you know what your real dynamic with your partner is if half of the time you're shit-faced, and the other half of the time you're depressed and you don't mzking why?

A drink and making out tonight

Anytime you get bombed on the poison, it will start out pretty. Jamie: "Wait, did we have sex?

You're only scared because you know you mkaing something too good to lose. I wake up so deeply depressedI can't muster up the energy to pull down the shades.

And there was also the time when, as a year-old, I got wasted off of 10 white Russians at a film festival after another party I had a knack for getting into all the good parties, even as a flat-chested high school student. If you are incapacitated from alcohol or other drugs, you cannot give consent. If you're not sure, getting mixed messages, or you haven't asked and received a clear yes, STOP and check in. You think you feel makingg displaced and anxious because you have an "anxiety disorder.

These factors can contribute to someone going from a state of intoxication to incapacitationand can impact communication, responses, reactions, interpretations of communication, and mood. But not strong vulnerable. How can you even begin to have a healthy relationship in such a state of perpetual weakness?

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Cam smiles and pulls off Quinn's shirt. You know how sometimes you exchange a look with a random entity, and you get that premonition? I've learned what my real emotional triggers are, as opposed to just my hungover emotional triggers. That, "we're going to make out tonight" premonition? That night, my parents found maing curled up in the fetal position, sound asleep on their front porch, platforms strapped to my teen girl feet, mascara flakes peppered across my face like freckles.


I was over thinking toxic relationships were glamorous. And most of all, I'm vulnerable.

If you weren't, kissing girls was weird. Hangovers meant tonighg were well-versed enough in the glam world of drugs and booze to even have a hangover everyone knew the green kids were too fresh to the scene to understand the nuances of le hangover.

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So, despite my sexuality, I was an avid participant in the drinking-boyfriend-sex parade. Hours later, we did indeed make out. Rihanna boomed through the cheap speakers as a young girl peeled off her clothes on stage, and BAM.