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Some people only ever enter non-monogamous relationships, while others open their relationship after a certain period if they find that they're struggling with monogamy. Different people have different reasons for wanting to be in an open relationship — and understanding exactly why you're doing it is crucial to it being successful. A recent AskReddit thread looked at exactly this issue.

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Each situation is as unique as the particular individuals involved, and Monogojy trial and error will tell what will work for each relationship or family.

Ethical non-monogamy can alleviate some of these problems. Who will spend holidays and vacations together? Non-monogamous people are usually independent, and have many friends and many sources of emotional support rather than depending on spouse for everything.

Have you considered non-monogamy??

But they both involve challenging the idea of monogamy. They cannot maintain a monogamous relationship over ter, long haul, because one partner or the other "cheats" and has secret affairs, or one partner loses interest in the other, or one or both partners discover conflicts or incompatible needs.

Some people are very happy with monogamous relationships, and argue that a monogamous relationship promises security, stability, and protection from AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases. Still others are in "group marriages," living with several adults who share sexual and spousal relationships. While many of these questions need to be addressed in ANY relationship, they are even more crucial to discuss in non-monogamous relationships, and can go a long way toward preventing misunderstandings, anger, and jealousy.

This was lpng because their primary responsibility for home and tterm seriously restricted their mobility, partly due to lack of effective birth control methods, and partly because the "adulteress" was usually severely punished by society for her transgression. A lifestyle may look great on paper but may feel completely different "on the ground," and living the lifestyle- with an open mind and some rules that feel comfortable- is the only way to develop a long-term situation that works for everyone involved.

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Unfortunately, this situation continues in most of the world. For instance, Is it okay to have casual affairs? Many complain bitterly that although they love their spouse and feel strongly attracted to him or her, the spouse doesn't want sex frequently enough or does not enjoy the same sexual activities.

This transformation of sexual mores allowed both men and women the opportunity to experiment with many new types of relationships and made it possible to reject the rigid sex roles and limitations of monogamous relationships, particularly marriage. While open relationships can involve being romantically and emotionally monogamous, with the freedom to explore sexually, polyamory is a type of open relationship that's typically about having long-term, multiple meaningful relationships with people.

When a poly person dates someone who is monogamous

According to Poly-Coach, polyamory is often associated with the idea of being "in love" with more than one person, which open relationships aren't always, even if there may be some level of emotional connection. Many monogamous relationships suffer from excessive dependency.

Although Poly-Coach emphasizes that every poly or open relationship will be shaped by the people in that relationship. On the other hand, many people try to live a monogamous lifestyle and find it just does not meet their needs.

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Many people spend their whole life searching for the perfect mate only to find themselves dissatisfied time after time. People in open relationships shared what longg appealing about the setup and why they chose it, and the were fascinating. When they feel strong sexual attractions towards others they must repress these feelings or end their current Momogomy in order to have sex with someone else.

For further information, or to receive free educational pamphlets, call No one knows the answer to this question, just as no one knows exactly why some people are gay and others are straight or bisexual.

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After the initial fear of change and the anxiety of charting unknown territory subsides, many people feel comfortable with non-monogamy as long as they feel secure that they are loved and will not be abandoned. What sounds idyllic and reasonable in theory is much more complicated and difficult to work out, logistically as well as emotionally.

Most people find that they experience jealousy, to a lesser or greater extent, especially when first embarking on this lifestyle. Other people are inclined toward many relationships of a less committed nature, and are not seeking marriage or long-term relationships. This leaves one partner always wanting more sex or more variety in sexual practices, and the other always feeling pressured for sex, often resulting in one partner having secret affairs with other lovers to fulfill their sexual needs.

Some people find that while they continue to feel jealous at times and to have feelings of conflict and ambivalence about their lifestyle and relationships, these feelings are greatly outweighed by a much more positive experience of the benefits and joys of non-monogamy.

New thinking about monogamy

Non-monogamous people must be assertive and able to articulate their own needs clearly and honestly. Most people experience less of the anxiety and insecurities and more lonf the satisfaction and rewards of non-monogamy if they know what to expect, and feel secure that their partners will abide by rules that are mutually agreed upon.

Monogamous couples are completely dependent on each other for affection and sex; and many become dissatisfied due to sexual incompatibilities, differences in level or frequency of sex, boredom with their sexual patterns. There are as many answers to this question as there are non-monogamous people. Here's what Reddit users had to say, because for a lot of them it's all about honesty. However, in real life, making a transition from traditional relationships lovd a non-monogamous lifestyle can be stressful and involve "growing pains", because living in a new way requires learning new skills and overcoming a lifetime of socialization.

It allows each partner to have as much sex, or as little sex, as he or she wants; because the partner who wants more sex is free to have other sexual relationships.

Are you open to an alternative lifestyle?

It usually takes time, thought, talking it out, and reassurance from partner s to let go of jealous feelings. Are you going to "come out" about your lifestyle to family, friends, and co-workers, or would you oMnogomy to remain closeted? She also facilitates discussion and support groups on open relationships, health and disabilities, and political activism and burnout.

Each partner depends heavily on the other for emotional support, socializing, "family", and community. What about children and other family lnog do you want to have children, and who will have parental responsibilities? Couples usually live together and spend their free time together, sometimes to the exclusion of all other intimate friendships.