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Updated: June 4, Several years ago, I started dating my best friend. At the time, it made perfect sense. We were inseparable, we had so much in common, we were extremely close, and when we realized we had feelings for each other that surpassed being just friends, it seemed almost silly not to date each other. Especially since we were both single and had been single for a while — a factor that we didn't take into consideration as something that was weighing heavily on our decision. Needless to say, it didn't work out.

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Once you've seen someone in such an intimate situation, like sex, you never see them quite the same way again. She's sad and somber and hates the world because she cannot find anyone to love. As soon as you began reading this, she popped into your head. Now our contact is limited to happy birthday s. You don't want what-ifs roaming around in your mind.

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The possibility for disaster is much too great, jusst if your relationship with this ex was serious. Type A is the one who loves being single. It's because of this that dating your best friend is such a risk. OK, she probably won't say that last part, but she'll think it. It was updated on June 4, Even if you are a natural risk taker, is this a risk worth taking?

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Envy is real and because Type B is lonely and unable to find happiness, she'll want neeed to be miserable just like her. Your family cannot detach themselves from you.

Because of this, you won't see the glaring red flags. Her happy-go-lucky way of looking at love makes you friens if she's right. You want to work at your relationship and make sure you get through your tough time because what-ifs are just that. And, in the process, we lost each other.

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So before you go down that road, here are seven things to consider — seven things that all point in the direction that dating your best friend is a bad idea. This friend will tell you how terrible your bae is, how much he doesn't deserve you and how you should dump him and be lonely like her. Isn't the thought alone painful enough? Needless to say, it didn't work avvise. They know who you may have had neeedd affair with.

You're basically putting all your bets on the table when you date your best friend and when you do that, it's hard to walk away with everything you started out with when you walked into the room in the first place; it's one hell of a gamble. Type B is sad AF.

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The problem with that is that no one can keep up a charade forever. Basically, you think you're getting the real deal, but you just might be getting what your best friend wants you to see in the moment. With drama, comes a whole slew of emotions, especially ones that you may not have felt before you found yourself in such a mess.

They know all your deepest, darkest secrets. These people will always love you and the truth is because they love you so much, you can do no wrong.

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Your Family Your family loves you. You don't want to create more problems or add on any negativity.

Deep down, you're probably not looking to break up so don't talk to this friend about your love issues. There's something about verbalizing our feelings that makes us feel so much better about what's going on. At the time, it made perfect sense.

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There's also the possibility of having created a new pattern of turning best friends into partners. As Masini points out, once "you take a dip in the best friend pond, this may be a one time thing — or the beginning of a pattern. Are you willing to, literally, lose it all? You may know your best friend like the back of your hand, but you don't know what it's like to date your best friend.

That's just basic math.

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While there is a chance that you can live happily ever after, it's just a chance and some chances aren't worth taking. Like that isn't a disaster waiting to happen or anything.

It's definitely not a loss many people would want to risk experiencing, because it's double the pain. Make sure you're seeking advice from mature and trustworthy individuals.